A wonderful place to meet new people.
Add A Personal
How to post a personal
First you need to create member account with @boutseniors (don't worry it's free):
Register as a new member
Once you've registered come back to this page where the link to the "Personals upload form" will appear below. You must be a logged in member in order to see it.
When you are logged in follow the link to the "Personals upload form", put in your info then hit the submit button, easy!
You may have to wait for an administrator to approve your personal but this usually doesn't take too long at all. Remember to read the security reminders listed below.
Security considerations
Before meeting someone you have contacted online:
- Arrange to meet your new friend in daylight in a busy, public space, close to people and shops.
- Forget the classic ritual of being picked up from home. There's no need for them to know where you live at this stage.
- Tell your family or friends where and what time you are meeting. Ring them after you finish, or even during the meeting if it's going well and you've been there for long enough for a friend to wonder where you are at.
- If you've got a mobile phone, charge it the night before and keep it close to you for easy access.
- If you haven't got a mobile phone, get one!
- If you like, get a friend to call and check on you during the meeting. This can also be the chance to find an excuse for leaving if the chemistry isn't fizzing.
- Be careful not to reveal any personal details in your first conversation. You may in the natural course of events be asked about where you live. Use general references, such as 'the south'.
- If you are going home straight afterwards, call a taxi before you go. Think of it as spoiling yourself for being a bold adventurer of the heart.
- Consider making another appointment for after the meeting. That way you won't be going straight home. Or if you like, get a friend to meet you there. You will no doubt be desperate to de-brief, so this could kill two birds with one stone.
No matter what happens, treat yourself afterwards to a little something for taking the risk of trying something new. Being good to yourself will make you feel more secure than anything else. And if you don't want to see the person again, look at your other options. And don't be afraid to try again - because everything's easier the second time.
